Men Who Love BBWs - Tips For Chatting

Big beautiful dating sites have become especially numerous, and with good reason. Plus-size women who register on these sites know that the men who contact them not only like BBW, but even PREFER them over thin women. However, this by no means makes it easy for BBW to meet quality men. We all know there are many men out there who use these sites looking for "no-strings" encounters, and many may even see big beautiful woman as "easy marks".

So, if you are a man seeking a serious, long-term relationship with a big beautiful woman, how do you distinguish yourself from the pack?

First, choose an ID with care. ID's such as "Looking2lickU" are guaranteed to get you a frosty reception on a serious dating site.

Make sure your profile is filled out completely. Nothing is more frustrating (and rude, to boot) than for a woman to get an instant message from a man who couldn't be bothered to fill out his profile. An empty profile may suggest to her that you have something to hide, and it's a good bet that as you chat, she'll be waiting for you to drop that bomb about being married, or some other deal-breaking nugget of information.

Post a picture on your profile. Post several, in fact! And make sure that at least one of them is a fairly large, clear shot of your face. Being able to look at a friendly, smiling face will definitely make a woman more comfortable. Plus, there is no denying that profiles with pictures get more responses. If you want to be taken seriously, do NOT skip this step.

READ her profile completely. This way you won't annoy her by asking her for information that is clearly stated in her profile. This shows her that you didn't really pay attention, and is not a good indicator for a possible relationship partner.

Next, pick out some items of interest from her profile and ask her about them. She wants to know that you are interested in her. Make a real effort to engage her in an actual conversation about her life. I guarantee she will return the favor!

Be yourself. I know you've heard this before, but it bears repeating. If your goal is to eventually meet this woman in person, you certainly do not want to do or say anything to misrepresent yourself. Honesty is indeed the best policy.

Lastly, and I cannot stress this enough, DO NOT overstep the bounds. What does this mean? This means that during your chat session, after you have done all of the above and seem to have her interest, you blow it all by asking her an intimately personal question that you would NEVER think to ask if you were meeting her face-to-face for the first time. Questions about the size of particular parts of her anatomy, favorite sexual positions, etc. are not appropriate in a casual chat.
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